Since I was err a teenager, I’ve always had this perfect family picture in my head.
Me, my loving and wonderful husband, son for my firstborn then a daughter.
We lived in a small 3 bedroom house where we spend most family times in the living room, reading or telling stories or having snacks, maybe watching a movie (but I reckon, in my dreams, movies are done in the bedroom for a more comfy position).
When I got married, I had that loving and wonderful husband. He truly truly was.
Then I had my firstborn, true enough — a boy! I kid you not when I tell you that in my dreams, how my son looks like now pretty much is how my son in my dreams looked like!
We were on our way to purchasing that small house where we can spend our time reading, playing, telling stories and watching movies. It wasn’t coming really really soon, but it was in the works. We had a plan and a timeline already.
All that would be missing soon was a little girl. My husband’s little princess. Everybody’s princess actually.
Then my whole world turned upside down. My husband — gone. The house and everything we’ve planned and saved for it — poof!
My son now is all I have.
… and a dream that someday these dreams will come back to life…
I was looking up the name Zion online and what it means. My husband wanted that name for our son, taking it from the movie Matrix not knowing what it meant. I was looking at it and it had several meaning. One common denominator was that it was biblical. It meant God’s Promised or Spiritual Land or Heaven.
Garrett on the other hand meant a brave spearman.
Then I went on and on looking at names. I knew I wanted to name my daughter something starting with the letter Z again but there are a few girl names that start with Z.
I saw Zoraya — it means Dawn.
Pretty cute, nice and just graceful.
I also remembered I told myself months back, that I wanted a baby girl, but with my marital problems, I knew it’s almost impossible. But while I was praying I remember telling the Lord, if I am still going to be blessed with a girl, I want to give her a name that would give tribute to God and my faith and a representation of who she is after all of the things that has happened to me.
I looked up HOPE and other names that means Hope.
Asha.– hope.
Zoraya Asha — the DAWN of HOPE.
🙂 perfect tribute to the end of whatever this is I’m going through. I know that in the end of all of this pain, if God decides to give me a daughter, she will be the Dawn of my new Hope.
She will always be protected by the brave spearman of God’s Spiritual land — my Zion Garrett
beautiful. just beautiful.
I haven’t given up hope on that. I haven’t given up hope on my daughter. Soon she will give me, my husband(whoever this is/will be by then) and my son happiness and joy. I still pray for this daughter. I still dream about my family.